Me or my family?

In my opinion, my family comes first before me. I believe so because my family has done alot for me like buy me clothes, bought me shoes, given me money, basically little things to benifit me. The point I'm trying to make is that since they can do alot for me, why can't I put my priorities aside for them like how they have always done for me. I also put my family ahead of myself because they have always been there for me, taught me my wrongs from rights, and last but not least I cherish moments with them like nobody else.